Great wall networkAugust 15 (trainee reporter Feng Lihua) They have gone through eight years of anti-cancer road, and after years of baptism and life test, they finally ushered in a long-lost happiness.
The care of life has made her more elegant and beautiful, and made him gain a wise and calm. In Chinese Valentine’s Day in 2018, they don’t need a deliberate surprise, only the tranquility of their home.
Her name is Guo Junfu, and she has suffered from nasopharyngeal carcinoma and gingival cancer cancer. His name is Zhang Guiping. During eight years, he accompanied his wife and used almost all the means to treat cancer. With a "study", he protected his wife through various difficulties, so that she was finally reborn and explained her love and responsibility.
On the morning of August 12th, I first met Zhang Guiping and Guo Jun, who were modest, quiet and warm. In a room filled with books, three cups of hot tea were brewed with the sound of Baroque-style piano played by his son, and we had a heart-to-heart talk.
With a "study room", Zhang Guiping protected his wife through various difficulties and finally made her reborn. Photo by Feng Lihua
An indelible pain — —
She has stage IV cancer, and he travels all over the country seeking medical treatment.
Zhang Guiping, Ph.D., Nankai University, currently teaching in shijiazhuang tiedao university; His wife Guo Junfu works in a bank in the provincial capital. They got married in 1998, and their married life has been calm and practical. In 2010, Guo Junfu, who has always been healthy and happy, fell ill without warning, cancer!
That year, the couple were only 37 years old and their son was 10 years old.
"On September 14, 2010, when I urgently took out the pathological examination report from the hospital, I saw that it was impressively written: poorly differentiated squamous cell carcinoma of nasopharynx!" Zhang Guiping strolled aimlessly on the street pushing a bicycle and rubbed it home step by step. After arriving home, Zhang Guiping told his wife, "The nasopharyngeal minister has a tumor, which is benign and needs baking electricity." Although his wife is willing to believe that what Zhang Guiping said is true, at that moment, his wife fell in Zhang Guiping’s arms and sobbed silently … …
Finishing a stack of thick tickets, Guo Junfu tells the story of her husband running around Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and other major hospitals for medical treatment. Photo by Feng Lihua
Since then, Zhang Guiping has embarked on a long road of seeking medical treatment. At first, he wandered around every floor and corner of the hospital like a trapped animal, sometimes in a hurry, and sometimes in a daze and helpless. He walked anxiously and confusedly through the crowded hospital beds on both sides of the corridor, watching bottles of colorless, white, red and yellow liquids drip into the patient’s body along the infusion catheter like rain. In this way, Zhang Guiping saw his wife wearing a hospital gown and admitted to the hospital. Gradually, his wife’s illness was relatively stable, and Zhang Gui only told her the truth.
However, only four months later, the results of the review once again brought the family to the brink of despair — — Lung metastasis of nasopharyngeal carcinoma. The doctor clearly told Zhang Guiping that his wife was suffering from stage IV cancer, which was already advanced, and there were few precedents for cure. "When I think that my wife has terminal cancer, I suddenly feel sweaty, and a feeling of sadness quickly spreads to every corner of my body." Zhang Guiping’s mind repeatedly echoed the words of an authoritative expert in Beijing: "Once lung metastasis occurs in nasopharyngeal carcinoma, it takes two years as long as one year."
Zhang Guiping fought back her grief and said firmly to her wife, "It’s all right, I’m here.". In the endless pain, this sentence gave his wife a strong support, and Zhang Guiping also used this sentence to motivate himself.
The lung metastasis of nasopharyngeal carcinoma has not been cured yet, and another heavy blow has hit them — — In 2012, Guo Junfu was found in gingival cancer. An expert from the Department of Pathology, Cancer Hospital of China Academy of Medical Sciences said that she had been engaged in pathological diagnosis for more than 30 years, and it was the first time that she met a patient with nasopharyngeal carcinoma and gingival cancer. Because of the complicated condition, many doctors kindly reminded Zhang Gui Ping to give up the treatment, but Zhang Guiping could not flinch while watching his wife’s illness. He firmly believed that there must be a way. In recent years, Zhang Guiping has traveled all over the major hospitals in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shijiazhuang, and sought out more than 100 doctors, just trying to find the best treatment plan for his wife.
Powerful life — —
She has been fighting cancer for 8 years, and he has been treating cancer scientifically in his study.
"Every time I have radiotherapy, I can’t imagine how my wife felt when the heavy iron door closed. She was left alone ‘ Close ’ In that house, that one ‘ Clawing one’s teeth ’ Does she feel lonely and scared when the x-ray machine rotates around her head? " "I remember that at the end of my wife’s radiotherapy, my throat was so painful that I couldn’t swallow water. I tried to make some liquid food for my wife, but I couldn’t swallow it every time. One night, I went to the kitchen four times in a row."
The wife who suffered from cancer twice suffered from radiation pneumonia, atelectasis and chemotherapy-induced nerve injury several times during the 8-year anti-cancer process, and experienced too much pain and suffering, but her wife never shouted pain … … Bits and pieces are engraved in Zhang Guiping’s heart.
In the past eight years, he accompanied his wife in hospital for 37 times, with a total of 869 days. Surgery twice, radiotherapy twice, chemotherapy for 12 courses, targeted therapy for 32 times and biological therapy for 9 times; In the past eight years, he has learned to watch CT films and prepare Chinese medicine. He took good care of his wife, studied with tenacity and wisdom, and grasped the measure and rhythm of treatment reasonably. In the past 8 years, nearly 3,000 days and nights, he used a study to "cure" his wife’s cancer, and the doctor said that his wife had recovered clinically. They have created a miracle of life!
Can a study "cure" cancer? What Zhang Guiping expressed was a feeling. Obsessed with reading since childhood, he naturally thought of asking for advice from books in the face of his wife’s illness. So, Zhang Guiping bought hundreds of medical books and read them night after night. In 2011, my wife had a CT examination of the lung, and found many nodules, patches and cords, which were suspected of lung metastasis. The doctor could not give a definite conclusion. Some said it was metastasis, some said it was not like metastasis, some suggested thoracotomy, or needle aspiration for pathological diagnosis, and some said it was tuberculosis. Desperate to find out his wife’s illness, he began to find the answer from the book. There was a special section in the book called "Imaging Features of Lung Metastasis of Nasopharyngeal Carcinoma", which made it very clear that Zhang Guiping roughly determined that his wife had lung metastasis according to the description in the book. In 2012, when his wife gingival cancer had an operation, he bought a book "Surgery of Head and Neck Tumors" in advance, which introduced in detail various links such as preoperative preparation, intraoperative risks, postoperative care, etc., which helped them to decide whether to operate or not and the matters needing attention after operation. "I think that learning is the best way to do anything." Zhang Guiping said.
Since 2015, Guo Junfu has reviewed many times in a row, and all physical indicators have returned to normal. "My wife’s illness can be cured thanks to the progress of medical workers and medical science." In Zhang Guiping’s view, the most important thing in treating cancer is to grasp the measure and rhythm of treatment. How can we cure cancer correctly step by step, in a planned and strategic way? Learn more and think more, which is the most reliable.
Endless joy — —
They are enthusiastic about public welfare to make "life so beautiful"
The word "joy" is precious to this family. "In 2013, my son was admitted to the middle school affiliated to the Central Conservatory of Music, which was the only time that my family was favored by fate in these years. There has been no laughter and laughter in our home for a long time. " Recalling here, Zhang Guiping and Guo Junfu are still full of joy.
Now Guo Junfu has recovered his health and cherished this hard-won happiness. "Every time my lover walks into the house, he always calls my name loudly. For us, this simple call is a great happiness." Guo Junfu told reporters.
On weekdays, when cooking a home-cooked meal, both husband and wife are talking and laughing. Photo by Feng Lihua
Over the years, Zhang Guiping and Guo Junfu witnessed the pain of cancer patients and their families, and understood the difficulties and hardships of cancer patients. "After my wife’s condition stabilized, I held a grateful heart and wrote our arduous and tortuous anti-cancer experience and treatment experience into a book beneficial to cancer patients — — "Life is so beautiful", I hope to pass on our tenacious scientific spirit of resistance to diseases to everyone. " Zhang Guiping introduced that this popular science book on cancer treatment was fortunate to be recommended by Guan Renshan, a famous contemporary writer and chairman of Hebei Writers Association, Professor Feng Fengyi, a famous national oncology expert, Fan Daiming, Qiu Weiliu, China Engineering Institute and Zhong Nanshan, China Engineering Institute, and wrote prefaces respectively.
"Since last year, my wife and I have held nearly 20 lectures on health and family style construction in and out of the province in our spare time," Guo Junfu told reporters. The couple’s unyielding anti-cancer experience, detours and understanding of marriage, family and responsibility have infected more people, and they have also gained the happiness of giving back to society and contributing to others.
In order to better serve the society, Zhang Guiping founded the WeChat official account named "Teacher Guiping". In the past year, readers from all over the country asked more than 15,000 questions, and Zhang Gui Ping often replied and answered them late into the night.
Everyone said that Zhang Guiping had done a lot for his wife, while Zhang Gui Ping said that he "just did what he should do".
Now, Zhang Guiping, who has won many honors such as "Good Man in China", "Top Ten People Who Moved the Provincial Capital", "Most Beautiful Family", "Civilized Family" and "Love Her Husband", wants to say: "flower of life, which blooms from the hardships of life, is so beautiful because of love, responsibility and dedication!"
